You have to pay attention to people because they subconsciously tell you how to love them. It’s not always with words.
Sometimes they do it with gestures. They show a blush here or a smile there.
The worst thing to do is spend years with someone who can’t meet your needs and you can’t meet his or hers either.
It’s paramount to have a partner who loves you the way you need to be loved.
Some people have great sex and never take the time to evaluate if their potential partner is in the running for their heart.
If you don’t have a plan, then any road will lead you there.
Sometimes your spouse may want or need certain things in order for his or her to feel satisfied in a relationship.
Identify your partner’s wants and needs that you naturally meet.
While doing this, you should also identify your partner’s wants and needs that don’t come as easily to you.
Of course you can learn a great deal from conversing with your potential partner, but often it is more important to pay attention to their actions.
Sometimes people will tell you one thing, but their subconscious involuntary responses reveal exactly who they are.
It could be as simple as a blush or a smile to let you know that you have struck something in them by your words or actions.
Often people show a flash of anger toward a subject, and they have no idea they have just given you a glimpse into what drives them crazy.
Most of us spend so much time trying to be understood.
If you talk to someone about themselves, they will listen all day.
This is usually the case with men but is not limited to just guys. Most people will reveal who they are in their language.
When I speak of language, it doesn’t always have to be verbal.
A large part of communication comes from someone’s tone of voice and his or her body language.
Learn how to truly study your partner and apply the things you have learned.
Sure your spouse may have many things they need to work on but there is no doubt that you will experience drastic change if only you decided to change.